I have 3 kids and for a year now my family has been going through rough times. My boyfriend and father of my kids decided he wanted to be single. We continued to live togeather, and I prayed everything would work out. But it just got worse every month. I couldn’t sit buy and watch my family separate so I followed him and found he was with a girl and her son.

That broke my heart but i still continued to pray. Jan. 2009 he was diagnosed with cancer. When he got out of the hospital our kids and him and me moved into his parents house. Two weeks ago we decided it was best if me and the kids went back home.

Well a week later I got into a huge fight with my mother in law. The day after that he told me he wasn’t coming home and he needed to live his life. I talked to my kids and they are heart broken. They go to the alter every Sunday and ask God to change there dads heart so he can come home. This whole thing seems very wrong in my heart. I’m torn on how to pray for this. There are times I pray for God to restore my family and there are times I ask for my kids hearts to be healed. I would love to have my family whole again. I’m just lost and can’t see what God wants.

7 comments for “

  1. June 1, 2009 at 1:25 AM

    You will be in my prayers.

  2. pia
    June 2, 2009 at 3:44 AM

    Father, i ask that you intervene in this situation. i pray that you will reveal to this lady what you’re will is for her life and her kids too. Father, i pray that you will transform her into your likeness, hear your voice/instruction and have the heart to obey. Father, the problem may seem complicated but i know you know and have the solution. i pray that she will get to know you more and have faith that you are in control. Father, i pray that this lady will have a deeper relationship with you. i believe that there’s nothing broken that you cannot fix. i pray for healing too, healing of their hearts. Lord, not our will but your will be done. we give you praise for answers to our prayers Lord. in Jesus’ name, amen.

  3. Amy
    June 5, 2009 at 8:45 AM

    I pray that you can stay strong not only for yourself but for your kids as well. My god be with you now in this diffecult time.I will pray.

  4. PJL
    July 9, 2009 at 10:57 AM

    I said a prayer for your family. I asked God to take control of your situation and I prayed you and your children will be strong in accepting God’s will for your family. God’s Blessing on you family.

  5. Shamli
    August 13, 2009 at 8:03 AM

    Praise the Lord Dear sister in all situations. I strongly believe that Our loving & wonderful Heavenly Father has some wonderful plans for you & your kids. Just remember that even in this gross situation, Jesus(who is constantly interceeding for us to our Father)is with You & the kids & He will do all things proper in his time. You may not be able to see thru his plans now. His plans are always for our prosperity & not for our downfall. Please dont lose patience & hope. Just keep praying & sowing your seed of faith & at the time of Harvest, He will bless u abundantly, that is, not only will your children’s father return back to you all but he will also be a loving dad & a caring husband beyond your expectations. Everything depends on your continuous prayers & unceasing faith. If U really trust God then wait for Him to work out this problem. Your hastiness will only lead to more complications.God has not created you to leave you alone. You will soon be united with your beau. God bless U.

  6. Angelina
    January 11, 2010 at 9:42 PM

    I know what that feels like I have 3 kids of my own and am currently going thru divorce. I will pray that you stay focused for your own sake as well as your children God will able you to do the things you need to do and he sees your pain lean on to him not onto your own understanding he truly has a plan for you and your children hang tight HE LOVES YOU SO MUCH!!!!!

  7. January 16, 2010 at 8:24 PM

    I will pray for you.

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