Comments on: But Mom it’s Not My Fault! http://christianwomenonline.net/2009/04/01/but-mom-its-not-my-fault/ Uniting Women of Faith Mon, 21 May 2012 00:09:05 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.2 By: manila http://christianwomenonline.net/2009/04/01/but-mom-its-not-my-fault/comment-page-1/#comment-1586 manila Mon, 27 Apr 2009 11:04:23 +0000 http://www.christianwomenonline.net/issue/?p=1508#comment-1586 I am sorry about what happened. But I can assure you that as a mother the stand you ultimately took was the best. In fact if you would have been a little stern at the beginning itself, things might have been different. I always believe that when your child makes the first mistake, throws the first tantrum, misbehaves for the first time or disobeys for the first time in life, that is the time to correct him or her. You can choose various paths to make your point, but one must act then and there. I will pray that GOD gives you strength and your son understanding. Everything will be alright. What you did takes a lot of courage, I can understand how painful it must be to see your son get into trouble and even more painful to hear that he thinks your love for him is a put on behavior. You are doing the right thing, leave your son in God's hands now. Live your life without grief or guilt. God bless! I am sorry about what happened. But I can assure you that as a mother the stand you ultimately took was the best. In fact if you would have been a little stern at the beginning itself, things might have been different.

I always believe that when your child makes the first mistake, throws the first tantrum, misbehaves for the first time or disobeys for the first time in life, that is the time to correct him or her. You can choose various paths to make your point, but one must act then and there.

I will pray that GOD gives you strength and your son understanding. Everything will be alright.

What you did takes a lot of courage, I can understand how painful it must be to see your son get into trouble and even more painful to hear that he thinks your love for him is a put on behavior. You are doing the right thing, leave your son in God’s hands now. Live your life without grief or guilt.

God bless!

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